Tuesday, March 10, 2009

PC and hope

I’m on spring break so forgive me if I’m not writing as regularly. I seem to be sleeping a lot more than I usually do. Sunday night I slept for 10 hours and last night I slept for nine hours. Hopefully I’m all caught up now. I didn’t intend to forget about working out but I just can’t seem to get up and go in the morning when I’m at my house. I think part of it is because there’s so many people here and I’ve gotten less used to the people in the morning. I’m used to mornings being quiet time, for me to slowly wake-up. Instead, if I go downstairs before eight, I’m bound to be facing people. I’ll try tomorrow to get up and work out. Maybe this time I’ll actually do it.

Matt update and conclusion: Over the weekend I got a text from Lori. Matt is feeling a friend vibe when it comes to me. So, no romantic interest, which I’m okay with. I was kind of insulted that he didn’t ask more questions of me at Piano Lounge. But apparently he’s been texting Lori daily and asking her all sorts of questions which is a little awkward considering she’s getting married in July.

He’s been asking her about the pictures of people on her facebook and he keeps asking about people we don’t hang out with and have less positive feelings about. I thought it was kind of hilarious and made me feel much more confident about what occurred between us (or lack thereof.) He told her he’s looking for someone to make him laugh and is into sports. Lori told him that’s cliché. I agree. I’ve been thinking a lot about what traits I want Prince Charming (PC) to have. And honestly, I don’t care about what he likes and dislikes. I care much more about personality traits and likes/dislikes don’t really apply there. I want PC to be responsible, optimistic, romantic, and confident. I’m not going to insist on specific physical characteristics because I don’t think they matter. Race, hair color, eye color, height – any of these are less important and don’t determine personality. So I think its kind of funny when people specify certain physical characteristics or likes and dislikes for their potential PC. Personality is going to be much more impacting than physical characteristics when it comes to long term relationships. Likes and dislikes can change or expand. Physical beauty only last so long. Personality is going to last much longer.

I’ve been waking up every morning thinking today’s the day I could meet my PC. I know it seems kind of excessive but if I don’t think positively every morning I might give up hope and that would be a horrible thing. A life without hope…*shudder*.

Books: I finished two books over the weekend. Voice of the Gods by Trudi Canavan was the third in a series which was really intriguing though I was much more intrigued by the second book than by the first or the third. I really wanted the Wilds to turn themselves into Gods or rulers of the world or something but they didn't. They just killed the gods and kept going with their lives which I suppose is probably what they would do since thats all they've done for thousands of years anyway. Overall the series was pretty good and I'll probably read it again someday. The second book was No Quarter by Tanya Huff which is the third in a series of four about magic that is managed by bards and made up of kigh, which are invisible creatures (unless you're a bard) who enable magic. This book was a follow-up to the second book which was also really interesting but highly complex to explain. If you want more info, google it.

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